Skype Sex 101: How to Keep Things Spicy While Traveling


If are you planning on flying solo on an adventure abroad, leaving your partner home to wonder what crazy experiences you’re having on the road, you better make sure you have a strong love connection and an even stronger internet connection.

Technology has made it easy to stay in touch with loved ones while away, so there should be no reason why you and your partner can’t keep things zesty while you two are apart.

Whether you strip down on camera or just talk candidly about some of your steamier times, skype sex can bring you two closer together and keep the spice alive. How you do it is 100 percent up to you!

So how do you have a sultry and successful Skype session? It’s as easy, but there are few ground rules to remember while navigating a sexy online session with your partner.

Rule # 1: Check your internet connection.

Remember the episode on the Big Bang Theory when Leonard has a Skype date with Priya, and right when she is about to take her clothes off the screen freezes? Well even if you didn’t catch this episode, you catch my drift. Nothing puts a damper on a steamy connection like having your computer freeze. Before you gear up to get it on, make sure you are securely and strongly connected to your internet connection.

Rule #2 Make sure you are alone (unless you are into that kind of thing).

It’s sometimes hard to get some privacy when you travel, especially if you’re staying in hostels. If you’re going to make anything other than small talk on Skype, get yourself a private room and make sure there are not any peeping toms or unsuspecting intruders that may storm in on your parade. Look your doors and play some light music if you have to, just like in high school.

Rule #3: Play it up. 

Skype sex is both hilarious and awesome. Get yourself into it! Put some lipstick on, do your hair up, shave your legs: do everything you’d do before a special date with your partner if you were back at home. Spend a few minutes to find your best angles on camera- watching your partner while you watch yourself is part of the fun.

Rule #4: Let it happen naturally. 

When your partner is not physically in front of you, there are a lot of gaping holes that can make communication a lot more awkward if you don’t keep the mood smooth. If you’re worried you won’t know what to say, have a notebook by your side of sexy sayings for when you feel like you are at a loss of words. Keep talking, lower your tone, and keep a sultry narration throughout the session. Let it happen naturally, just as it would if you two were next to each other.

Rule# 5: Let Loose, Have Fun.

Let’s be serious here: Skype sex should be light, frisky and fun. This is all about keeping the spice alive, right? Whether or not you choose to strip down on camera is up to you and the kind of relationship you have. If it seems right, go with it! Let your guard down, have fun and enjoy: technology is making it so much easier to stay connected.

How do you keep the flame alive while traveling? Have you ever tried Skype sex? Don’t be shy!


About Author

Since a young age Jenna has always had an undeviating desire to explore the world and all its hidden niches. This desire has catapulted her willingly into some of the most memorable experiences of her life! Starting with delivering shoes to underserved villages in the Dominican Republic to bussing it down through Mexico and Central America, she currently lives and works in Cochabamba, Bolivia and believes experiencing first hand what foreign culture is really like, serves as her ultimate passion.


  1. I’m in a long distance relationship and know this well. My biggest advice to newcomers is to not go fantasy on your first time. It’s awkward enough doing it your first time, but worse when you have never done the fantasy that you are describing. I have never done it in an airplane bathroom, so how would i know what to say. It almost sounds fake and can easily be misread. Just do it naturally as if he or she was right there.

  2. Agreed! A good friend once told me that all dirty talk comes from a place of honesty. And while Skype sex is not synonymous with dirty talk it’s something I keep in mind with my LDR partner. If you’re honest with yourself and your partner about what turns you on during a little Skype session and you’re honest with yourself, you’ll have a great time. 🙂

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