5 Epic Tips on How to Deal with Catcalls


When you visit Argentina it will not take long for you to realize that you’ll have to figure out how to deal with catcalls. The attitude towards women here is pretty different. Catcalls are the norm here, and you’ll need to deal with being whistled at, called at, or air-kissed.

When I arrived, I was hit on in the airport. Yep, lugging 2 giant bags and my dog, greasy hair and flustered face—I was still a target.

Machismo, which is basically the old fashioned idea that men are the ones who wear the pants, is still a prominent belief here.

Sometimes it’s chivalrous, like men paying for dinners or going on and on about how the world exists inside your eyes, or some other cheesy line. Other times, it’s just plain GROSS.

When compliments turn into words yelled at you on the street, it’s called piropos and it is simply a part of life you will have to accept.

Trust me, I am not the kind of girl who could be called a pacifist when it comes to men disrespecting me, but you have to remember that in this culture, it’s not all that disrespectful.

Here are some tips on how to deal with catcalls.

How to deal with catcalls

1) Don’t make eye contact

If you look a man in the eye, you’re just inviting him to say something to you. It gives him the idea that you want to be talked to. It can be frustrating to feel like you have to always keep your head down to thwart off attention from men, but that’s the idea here.

Keep your head slightly down and pretend there’s a barrier between you and the outside world.

2) Keep your wrinkled nose hidden

I know, it’s hard to walk through a group of smelly men who are simply drooling as you approach them, but if you look extra prude, they are really going to let you have it. Part of how to deal with catcalls is figuring out your boundaries, both emotional and physical. Sometimes the best way to deal is just to keep your head down and keep moving on!

After all, you’re a busy lady with places to be and things to do. Don’t give these jerks the pleasure of a reaction.

3) Keep things in perspective

Like I said before, you are in a different country with a different culture. In the US, if I got yelled at 4 times in 6 blocks (as I do here) I would cause physical harm to someone. However, here, I have to just suck it up, keep my eyes forward and keep walking.

Understand that things are simply different in different parts of the world, and nothing you do is causing that. You can try your best to blend in with the clothes you wear, and that might not also make any difference.

It isn’t you, it’s them.

4) Know how to retaliate

I know I just told you to keep walking, but when it comes to how to deal with catcalls sometimes you need to say something. In general, I allow each man one comment without any retaliation.

However, if they persist and simply will not leave me alone, I have a few scathing comments I like to whip out for the especially pushy men who need to be put in their place. For Spanish-speaking countries, try “no me toques” (don’t touch me) or “no me molestas,” (don’t bother me).

5) Be careful

If it’s late at night, dark and deserted, don’t take chances with offering a retort or even with engaging with the catcallers. Just speed walk past them and don’t say a word. Swallowing your pride is a small price to pay to keep yourself safe.

What is your advice for how to deal with catcalls? Have any crazy stories of encounters you’ve had with men abroad? Do share!

5 tips on how to deal with catcalls while traveling

About Author

Rease gave up on office life before she turned 22. She believes in hard work, but only if it makes you incredibly happy. Rease is a writing, traveling, kid-loving, Spanish-speaking nerd of a girl who may be the craziest balance of 40-year-old responsible logic and 7-year-old childlike amusement. She is currently living the expat life in Buenos Aires, Argentina, writing for Travelated.com and planning her next trip - in other words- living the dream.


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  2. After spending a semester in Florence, I got so used to the catcalls that I missed them when I returned. I felt suddenly unappreciated and ignored. Talk about ironic!

    The best thing you can do is maintain your perspective (yup, its different in Argentina than the US) and ignore.

    • Haha, I don’t think I could miss it at all. For about a week I had a guy visiting so I never got yelled at. The first time I walked outside my place without him I got catcalled 4 times in 5 blocks.

  3. I remember in Mexico seeing a cab driver make loud kissing sounds to a girl he passed on the street — kind of funny, yet pathetic at the same time!

  4. Having almost been in Latin America a year now it doesn’t even phase me anymore, some catcalls are nice and call you beautiful and others are hissing. I ignore both.

    The important thing to remember is that while they may hiss or whistle, it’s extremely rare that they’d ever try to touch you.

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